Third Person(s) make life exciting , entertaining and meaningful

When it comes to talking about third person(s) in his absence ,   Life is loosely divided in five groups of two decades each :

Year 1-20 : You tend to listen about them , absorbing everything about the person - often through chatting of elders huddled in groups - and forming subconscious opinion about them. You like to hang around the seniors or wait at the sidelines to have you included . 

Year 21-40 : You tend to enjoy walloping talking about different people - related , unrelated , relevant or not to relevant. You are opinionated about the person and keen to express without inhibition . You love to drift  yourself and drag people in the conversation . You love gossiping every facet about people  - even to an extent of exaggerating whatever you have heard or read  . You enjoy titillation that bring with this without any remorse if your utterance would invite unfair denigration or undue adulation. You love to join or invite people who are great story tellers and who have nuggets of information about everyone and anyone . 

Year 41 -60 : You tend to talk about people  but talk only good about them . You eschew dark spots , unpleasant things even it meant unpleasant memories . Even if someone else pours acidity about the person , you tend to mellow it by highlighting good and well meaning dimensions of that person . You tend to stay away from persons  who indulge in gossiping and in fact veer around those who have wonderful things to say about others .

Year 61 And above : You realise the futility of everything that you did in first three decades . You are becoming person of 1:1 exchange . You consciously and scrupulously stay away bringing third person in the talk . If at all , you need to talk about others - you do it objectively keeping in mind the purpose and intention of the talk . You are now communicating with only one person at a time . When in groups, you tend to listen and if need to talk , you talk about ideas & views  but never people . You enjoy characters and develop fondness in them and often many of them fictional depicted by storyline or movie .  You relish the enjoyment that you had in first three decades through  songs , writings , articles stories , biographies and movies.  




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