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Who do you marry ?

A decision paramount to most people in their life time . A lot of possibilities gets thrown at this question. Marry someone you love, Marry with whom you are friend with, Marry with whom you share philosophy or Marry someone who is tuned with your cultural and work ethos. David LeVine, the director of Warm Wisdom Press, says. Never get married because you’re in love. This may sound crazy and weird but I tend to agree with his views. If we look at our own life, we can observe how many times we have been in love . Timespan of love endurance may be different but every time, we were in love – it was intense, pure and genuine– at that moment of time. But what we termed ‘love’ then, it wasn’t love today. Was it attraction, infatuation or sheer physical liking ? all depended on the state of mind prevailing then. David says, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning. Chemistry – physical attraction – is not something to be ignored. But a deeply loving relationship based on...